You have been together for a long time, you already live together, you already know each other very well, your relationship is already stable and amazing, but you are still waiting. Another birthday has passed, another anniversary has passed, another joint trip abroad has passed – and this time he didn’t get down on his knee. So when will the proposal come that comes with a stunning engagement ring? If your patience is running out, you need to be creative and sow in his mind the idea he has A huge idea – to propose to you! After all, you have all the tips on what to do so that he comes to us to choose a ring for you:
Remind him what his life looked like without you
We all have a tendency to remember mostly the good things from the past. If you ask your man about his single life, he will remember crazy nights of alcohol and parties with his friends, a sea of girls and many other experiences that do not necessarily have anything to do with his personal past. To be honest, your man at most went out to a neighborhood pub with his regular friends, went on first dates that didn’t even end with a kiss, with boring girls right off the app and light years away from who you are and his diet consisted mostly of pasta with ketchup sauce.
So you can easily remind him how completely miserable his life without you is and also less tasty. Inform him that you are going on a week’s vacation with a friend or that you will be visiting family members that you haven’t visited in a long time. At first he will be happy that he has plenty of free time to spend with his friends, but within two days it will become clear to him that most of them are busy with work, their relationships or children for those who already have them. He will find himself in front of the screen in the living room, alone, watching reruns of something, eating pasta again, and then it will happen – he will miss it, because being single is not that fun.
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That’s how his mother would like you to get married
If you haven’t done so yet, start liking his parents, especially his mother. When you visit on a Friday night, demonstrate graceful play skills with his little nephews and when his mom is around, throw in a sentence or two about how much you love children. Surprise everyone at a meal with a cake you made to show off or a super delicious pie. This will cause the mother to throw him a comment like: “What a beauty! You found a woman who sits down to cook!”.
Organize a date with a married couple of friends
Remind him that you haven’t met with a couple of common friends, who are happily married, for a long time. Organize an evening of fun for the four of you in a pub or restaurant. We all tend to imitate other people, so if you spend more time in the company of a married couple of friends (it’s important to make that couple feel so much fun with you so that they want to meet a lot) there is a great chance that this will ignite the desire to get married in your guy as well
Let’s be a little jealous
Make him wake up so you don’t get kidnapped by someone else. Don’t respond quickly to every message or call from him, open up a certain mystery about places you’ve been, tell the little one like this that there is someone new and cute at work that you are having lunch with now. You can also tell, by the way, that the ex called you today because he got your birthday confused. It is important to be careful that the level of jealousy is low, lest you achieve the opposite action.
And sometimes, it’s best to be open. Talk to him about how he sees your future together, express your willingness to advance the relationship to the next level and don’t be afraid. If you love him and he loves you, good communication is the basis of your relationship.
